Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

Last Updated: 30.06.2025 18:50

Why do guys on dating apps often just first message "hey" or "hey how are you" instead of being more creative and unique? How do they think being a copycat will stand out?

It's one of the reason why pickup trainings suck.

If she is not creative in her messages, no guy would care either.

If a hot girl pays attention to me it doesn't really matter what she says. Her attention is enough.

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BTW all the girls start their messages with a similar simple greeting.

Because it's a standard phrase to start communication.

Of course, farther on when you start chatting moreover dating being smart and creative will really impress, but only as a SUPPLEMENT to attractive look.

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No country for ugly people…

That's not an interview for a stand-up artist.

People choose a partner by sexual attractiveness in the first place.

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